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1259.) ive always wanted a relatinship like Serena and Darien’s. it just seems so wonderful to have someone to stand there by your side no matter what, to have someone always come rescue you whenever in trouble. yep, thats me a girl that envies a cartoon’s relationship.
1258.) i like this guy and he likes me too. we are both 15. he’s super sweet and shy, which is kind of a downer. but anyways, he’s never been kissed. so what should i do? do i need to wait for him to make a move or should i make the move?
Well he’s shy so most likely he’s not going to make the first move. If anything you should edge in on it and work your way from there. But if it’s taking that long you might as well do it your self
1257.) be sure of what i feel about my boyfriend right now
1254.) okay so theres this guy right? and ive known him to him for about 6-7 months now, and ive been like talking talking to him for about 2-3 months, and like i really really really really like him, almost to the point where i love him. and he likes me back, the other night he said he loved me and stuff, but like i cant, we cant be together. because hes a Jehovah’s witness and they say you cant be with someone untill your 18 and the person you date has to be a witness too AND she has to become your wife. and hes like really into his religion. i wouldnt mind waiting till hes 18 and being his wife and stuff, but i dont want to become a witness. and like theres other guys who i can be with but im just waiting for him, and im missing out on a lot of stuff, for him. and its like, idk what to do. should i wait? or should i tell him that we should just be friends?
I understand that you could wait for him. But that whole converting for him, that’s a problem. If you convert for him, you gotta change all of your beliefs and you might have to give up certain things. I don’t know a lot about Witnesses and stuff, but they’re kinda strict about a lot of stuff. I guess the best thing would to do is to let him know that you two should be friends. Because, if he’s not gonna make any changes to be with you, why should you change everything to be with him? I wouldn’t go be with that other guy, because you’ll hurt the first guys feelings. Just stay single and live your life.
1255.) You told me you loved my penmanship, everytime i write now it reminds me of that time.
1256.) i like three guys, or so i think. i told one of them a week ago and he likes me too. the thing is he is so quite and shy, and has never been kissed. the second guy doesnt know i like him but he flirts with me alot. and the third guy, told me he likes me and i told him i like him too. hes so sweet! i dont know what to do with these boys!? hELP!
Well, pick out who you have the strongest connection with. Which ever one you can get along with more and makes you the happiest should be the one you choose.
1253.) this guy i like has a bad reputation with girls and drinking/drugs. he promises he won’t screw me over, and he knows that i have trouble trusting him. he sounds so sweet and promising. he told me he would stop with weed and slow down the drinking just for me. should i really trust him? or should i not ask him to change?
I say go for it. See, people won’t really stop doing something because it’s good for them, they’ll want an excuse to do it or a reason. So, if you can be his reason, that’s cool. I stopped everything for my girlfriend and she knows it. She wasn’t the whole reason that I stopped, but she motivates me to not do it any more. I would trust him, but I wouldn’t open up and completely trust him. You didn’t ask him to change, he offered it. So really, you’re not asking him to do anything.
1250.) How do I win him back? My boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up, but I know we both still like each other. I think we rushed into the relationship, but I want to be with him and I genuinely think we could make it work. If only he would believe how much I like him. And I could stop being cold and insensitive.
Well, open up to him. Let him in and know how you feel about everything. Do something to show how much you care, send him a really long text, write him a letter, pop up with a random gift or something. Just do something to prove to him how much he means to you.
1251.) i like this guy, who my friend used to have a thing with. she liked him for years, and she’s my bestfriend. she says she’s okay with it, plus she’s got an older boy now(: but that’s not the main thing. every time i tell someone, they are like that’s so stupid. why do you like him and stuff. i know it shouldnt effect it, but it does. what should i do?
I used to have this same problem. Well it was a similar problem. Her friends didn’t like me, my friends didn’t like her, but it didn’t matter. All that matters is how you two feel about each other. Don’t let others influence you because you’re not dating him, his friend, your friend, your friend’s cousin, your friend’s cousin’s fish. No, it’s you and him.
1252.) i feel lonely. i’ve never had a real relationship before and everyone else i know has… no one even understands how i feel right now. i’ve cried myself to sleep plenty of nights and i just can’t do it anymore.
1249.) okay, so theres this guy, and like im in a situation where we both like each other, and we just cant be together because of his religion, and like i really really really really really really really like him, and stuff, but i dont know if he likes me that much back, and like i dont want to be pushy and all but how do i find out if he likes me that much back or not? and like he makes me so happy, but i dont think i make him as happy, and i want to make him as happy, i just … i just dont know what to do. help ?
Damn, that’s a hard one because religion is involved. Since that’s there, it’s gonna have a big impact on the whole situation. And, if you wanna see how much he likes you, ask him. If you don’t want to do that, plan something out and see if he falls through. But, not something simple, make it somewhat complex. And when you’re with him, see how much he smiles. If he’s just giving you half ass smiles, you’re not really making him that happy.
1248.) i thought he liked me, we held hands, we hugged, we did all the things that hinted to me he liked me too. i guess it was all a lie. im not sure what to think anymore. he found out i liked him and told everyone at school like he was proud of it, well i was sick of him being such a dick to me, so i went up to him and told him i didnt like him, (which is a complete lie btw) he turned around and yelled ” i dont like you either” in my face. JERK. we are completely ignoring each other now, which kind of sucks. he will say hi to everyone, except me. he pretends like im not even there, and i do the same. there was this dance, and i was dancing with all his friends, i was flirting with all his friends, and i dont know if he noticed, but i know he saw me. he was dancing with other girls, right in front of me. ugh, im just so confused, what is happening, are we just friends, can we not even have a friendship anymore, because im trying to get over him but so far its not working. ?
Well, you see, guys are jerks/dumb asses. He’s off flirting/dancing with all these other girls because he’s jealous that you were dancing/flirting with his friends. He may not like you, but all boys have one emotion, and that emotion is called jealousy. I wouldn’t say you guys can never be friends, but I wouldn’t advise you two to date. And, you’re probably not getting over him because of the whole situation and how it went down. So, I guess you should at least try to talk to him. Not now though, give it some time. I’d say like a month, maybe two.
