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1253.) this guy i like has a bad reputation with girls and drinking/drugs. he promises he won’t screw me over, and he knows that i have trouble trusting him. he sounds so sweet and promising. he told me he would stop with weed and slow down the drinking just for me. should i really trust him? or should i not ask him to change?  

I say go for it. See, people won’t really stop doing something because it’s good for them, they’ll want an excuse to do it or a reason. So, if you can be his reason, that’s cool. I stopped everything for my girlfriend and she knows it. She wasn’t the whole reason that I stopped, but she motivates me to not do it any more. I would trust him, but I wouldn’t open up and completely trust him. You didn’t ask him to change, he offered it. So really, you’re not asking him to do anything.